People in every country are divided into castes, and this is independent of the political system or the government, which most often forms the cell of the highest caste. We do not choose our parents, family, relatives, and many other things, but nevertheless, we can influence a great deal, sometimes very radically. Everything is in our power, and that is true, but how to focus one's power in the right direction without affecting the desires and aspirations of others—that, in my opinion, is not realistic. Every successful person has, at a minimum, envious people, and at a maximum, enemies—this is an axiom. But we are not talking about geometry; more attractive options for emphasis are those in which young people refuse the success 'prepared' for them, most often by their parents, saying, 'Why do I need these handouts? I am something myself, I don't want to owe anyone anything.' Mistake!.. Parents worked their whole lives for this.. It is another matter if you do not see yourself in this, if you don't like it, but that happens rarely. And all for two reasons: the first is thoughts about what people, acquaintances, friends, or colleagues will say about them, and the second is the fear of not living up to trust, indecision, from which they escape behind so-called independence.. And yet, this is the hardest thing: having reached the top step, to hold onto it, and at the same time gain respect and trust. And parents are left with nothing, and probably not always fully understanding what exactly happened, and upbringing does not always play the first fiddle in this.. It's sad, but we are all the same in some ways, and different in others, and it seems to me that over time this difference will become very blurred, and I wouldn't want that..